Sometimes only one of the two spouses wants a divorce and the other spouse will be uncooperative and refuse to sign any papers related to the divorce. But spouses in all states are entitled to a divorce on no-fault grounds—irreconcilable differences or incompatibility, making the marriage unsustainable—and one spouse’s refusal to sign divorce papers (e.g., waiver of service of process, marriage settlement agreement, mediated settlement agreement, or divorce decree) will not stop the other spouse from finalizing the divorce.

In such a situation the divorce will be contested rather than uncontested, and if the spouses are not able to agree on important elements related to the dissolution of their marriage—division of property, spousal support, child custody and visitation, child support—the court will make those determinations at trial and include them in divorce decree without input from the uncooperative spouse, if necessary. Once these determinations are included in the divorce decree they become legally enforceable obligations for both former spouses.

In Kentucky, as in all states, a spouse is entitled to obtain a divorce on no-fault grounds, such as irreconcilable differences, even if the other spouse is uncooperative and refuses to sign divorce papers. Kentucky law allows for a divorce to proceed as 'contested' if one spouse does not agree to the divorce or the terms being proposed. In a contested divorce, the court will require both parties to attempt mediation to resolve their differences. If mediation fails and the spouses cannot agree on key issues like property division, spousal support, child custody, and child support, the court will make these decisions during a trial. The court's decisions on these matters will be included in the final divorce decree, which becomes a legally enforceable obligation for both parties. An uncooperative spouse's refusal to participate or sign documents will not prevent the divorce from being finalized, and the court can proceed without their input if necessary.