Harassment by neighbors can take many forms, including yelling obscenities; loud and disruptive noises (especially at night) from parties, fights, or other activities; threatening or abusive behavior; or damage to your home or yard by pets.

If your neighbor’s behavior is merely annoying and not abusive, threatening, or criminal conduct, you may be able to resolve the issue with a courteous discussion. But if your neighbor’s conduct is threatening, abusive, violates a noise ordinance, or is a criminal offense such as stalking, trespassing, or peeping, for example, you may be able to get assistance from the police (call 911 in an emergency) or from the civil courts in the form of a restraining order.

In Wisconsin, harassment by neighbors is addressed under state statutes that define harassment and outline the legal remedies available to victims. If a neighbor's conduct includes yelling obscenities, loud noises, threatening behavior, or property damage, and it rises to the level of harassment as defined by Wisconsin law, the affected party may seek a restraining order. Wisconsin Statute § 813.125 allows individuals to petition for a harassment restraining order if someone is engaging in a course of conduct that seriously alarms or annoys them, and serves no legitimate purpose. This can include behaviors such as stalking, repeated phone calls, or unwanted visits. If the conduct is criminal in nature, such as trespassing or vandalism, it may be reported to law enforcement. For noise-related issues, local noise ordinances should be consulted, as these can vary by municipality. In non-emergency situations, a discussion with the neighbor or mediation may be a first step, but for immediate threats or emergencies, calling 911 is appropriate.