Parenting plans—also known as custody agreements or custody and visitation agreements—are proposals submitted by parents for how issues involving children should be handled following a divorce or other proceeding in family court. The court will usually request the parents submit such a document proposing how conservatorship (decision-making), custody or possession, support, and other issues will be handled. The court may adopt some or all of these proposals and include them in the court’s order (divorce decree, child support and custody order), at which point the become legally enforceable.

In many states there is a standard possession order (SPO) that serves as the default terms for such matters, and as a useful starting point for parents who wish to modify it by agreement.

In Oklahoma, parenting plans are essential components of family law proceedings involving children. These plans outline how divorced or separated parents will manage various aspects of their children's lives, including conservatorship (decision-making authority), custody or possession, child support, and visitation schedules. Oklahoma law encourages parents to work together to create a parenting plan that serves the best interests of the child. If the parents can agree on a plan, the court will typically review it to ensure it meets legal standards and the child's needs before incorporating it into the final court order, making it legally enforceable. If parents cannot agree, the court may order mediation or decide on the parenting arrangements based on the child's best interests. Oklahoma does not have a standard possession order (SPO) like some other states, but the state provides guidelines to help parents and courts establish a parenting plan that is fair and considers the child's welfare.