Dating during divorce is not illegal, but many divorce lawyers advise their clients not to date during divorce—or to only do so in a way that is respectful of your soon-to-be ex-spouse and your children, if any. Dating during divorce may create the perception with the court (judge) that your extra-marital dating caused the breakup of the marriage and may influence the court’s division of property (assets), temporary spousal support (during the divorce), spousal support, spousal maintenance, or alimony following the divorce, and child custody decisions.

Dating during divorce may cause the court to question your judgment—especially if the court believes exposing your children to your new relationship may be mentally and emotionally difficult or harmful to them—making it necessary for the court to order the spouses not to have overnight guests (dates) when they have custody or possession of the children during the divorce process.

In Indiana, dating during divorce proceedings is not prohibited by law, but it can have significant implications on the divorce outcomes. Attorneys often advise clients to be cautious about dating before the divorce is finalized. The court may perceive that dating contributed to the breakdown of the marriage, which could potentially affect the division of assets, spousal support, and alimony. Additionally, if children are involved, the court may scrutinize the parent's judgment regarding the exposure of children to new romantic partners. If the court finds that such exposure is detrimental to the children's well-being, it may impose restrictions, such as prohibiting overnight guests while the children are present. These considerations are taken into account to ensure the best interests of the children and the equitable resolution of the divorce.