Collaborative law or collaborative divorce is an alternative to the traditional divorce process in the court system—it is a process in which spouses hire attorneys to help dissolve the marriage by resolving differences through agreement rather than by litigation in court.
In collaborative law, the spouses try to come to agreements on the division of property, spousal support payments, child support payments, and child custody schedules—rather than the judge making these decisions by court order. Collaborative law is designed to reduce some of the more confrontational, destructive conflict in the divorce litigation process, while offering the spouses greater privacy and confidentiality in their personal lives.
The characteristic elements of collaborative law include:
• a written agreement signed by the spouses and their lawyers that no one will use or threaten to use the court process during the collaborative process
• each spouse has a lawyer and actively participates in all negotiations
• financial and other experts are retained jointly and are prohibited from working for the spouses if the spouses decide to use the litigation process
• neither lawyer can participate in any litigation against the other spouse after working as a collaborative lawyer on the matter
• the lawyers are terminated (“fired”) if the spouses decide to use the litigation process
Many states have laws that define the collaborative law process and give effect to the agreements made by the spouses. These laws are generally located in the state’s statutes—often in the family or domestic relations code.
In New Mexico, collaborative law, also known as collaborative divorce, is recognized as an alternative to traditional divorce litigation. This process involves both spouses hiring attorneys specifically trained in collaborative law to negotiate the terms of the divorce, such as property division, spousal support, child support, and custody arrangements, without going to court. The key principles of collaborative law include a commitment not to litigate, active participation by both spouses and their attorneys in negotiations, the use of joint neutral experts, and the understanding that should the process break down and move to litigation, the collaborative attorneys will withdraw from the case. New Mexico has specific statutes that govern the collaborative divorce process, ensuring that agreements reached through this method are legally binding and enforceable. These statutes provide a framework for the collaborative process and offer protections similar to those found in traditional divorce proceedings, while emphasizing privacy, cooperation, and a less adversarial approach to dissolving a marriage.