Fathers of young children were historically at a disadvantage in seeking custody of their children due to tender years doctrine—a theory courts adopted in the belief that children had a greater need for the love and care of their mothers during their tender years. Under the tender years doctrine, custody of young children was automatically given to the mother unless there were unusual circumstances. Today, courts more often recognize the important role both parents play in the lives of young children, and usually order some form of shared custody arrangement. But there are factors the court may consider that sometimes favor one parent over the other in determining who will be the primary custodian of the children—such as giving preference to a parent who has not been working outside the home, and has therefore been spending more time taking care of the children’s daily needs.
In Nebraska, the tender years doctrine, which historically favored mothers in child custody cases, is no longer a legal standard. Instead, Nebraska courts focus on the best interests of the child when making custody determinations, as outlined in the Nebraska Revised Statutes. This approach considers various factors without an automatic preference for either parent based on gender. Factors that may influence custody decisions include the emotional ties between the child and each parent, the child's needs, the ability of each parent to provide for those needs, the child's adjustment to home and community, and the willingness of each parent to facilitate a relationship between the child and the other parent. While the court may consider which parent has been the primary caregiver, this is just one of many factors evaluated, and both parents are encouraged to share in the responsibilities of raising their children. Shared custody arrangements are common unless they are not in the child's best interests.